Free Messages & Plans
What you get free with every girlfriend, what happens when your 15 free messages run out, and what Ultimate and Elite add — XOT costs, gifts, and Elite's faster bond.
You can meet any girlfriend and start a real relationship for free. A subscription is what lets it keep going — and Elite makes it grow faster. Here's exactly how it works.
Free: 15 messages with every girl#
Each girlfriend gives you 15 free messages — no XOT and no card needed. That's per girl, so every new girlfriend you meet starts with her own 15.
- Only the texts you send count. Her replies, photos and voice notes don't use them up.
- Everything she does is real from the first message: she remembers you, earns or loses XP with you, and sends photos when the moment is right.
- When you're down to your last couple, a small note above the message box shows how many you have left with her.
When your free messages run out#
She doesn't just stop mid-sentence. Her last free reply leaves something open — a question, a tease, the start of a story — and she has to step away. You'll see "{her name} had to step away. Pick it up where you left off." with a Keep texting button.
- Your next message is saved. If you type something after your last free message, it's held for her — "She'll see this when you upgrade" — and sent the moment you subscribe.
- She may reach out again. If she texts you later, you get a few more messages to answer her.
With a subscription#
Any subscription (Ultimate or Elite) opens up the full relationship:
- Unlimited texting with every girlfriend — each message costs 10 XOT, paid from the XOT included in your plan.
- Every relationship level, with her photos and videos opening up as you get closer.
- Gifts and the exclusive sets they unlock. → Gifts & exclusive content
- Edit & resend your last message, and Reset relationship to start over with her.
What Elite adds#
Elite is built for people who are serious about their girlfriends:
- 1.5× bond XP. Every XP you earn with her — messages, streaks, good conversation and gifts — counts one and a half times, so you climb the relationship levels faster.
- Free Auto Reply. Auto Reply drafts your next text for you to review before it's sent. It costs 5 XOT a draft on other plans and nothing on Elite.
Losing XP isn't multiplied — Elite only speeds up the good stuff.
XOT at a glance#
See Plans overview to compare plans, and XOT costs for every price on the platform.